1.   The show-off:  longs for the adoration and envy of others, while suffering from sense of invalidity and undesirability

2.   The bully;  only thinks of oneself; intimidates

3.   The entitled one:   can make up their own set of rules and should be able to have whatever they want whenever they want       it.

4. The addictive self-soother: has intolerable discomfort associated with unrecognized loneliness, shame and disconnection.

(Disarming the Narcissist, by Wendy Behary)