“In the cycle of nature there is no such thing as victory or defeat; there is only movement.” (p. 16) This reading from Manuscript Found in Accra by Paulo Coelho describes the necessity for us to experience defeat in order to grow………he says DEFEAT IS NOT THE SAME AS FAILURE.   This is important for all of us to know because in my opinion, we humans tend to blame ourselves harshly if we don’t get our particular goals met.  “Defeat is for those, who despite their fears, live with enthusiasm and faith.”(p. 23.)  While those who have never failed have little courage or vision.” Sometimes the best thing we can get is to not get what we want.” (Sakyong Mipham)